A bit of a romantic, bit of a nerd, and a bit of a dreamer. But I have worked hard to make those dreams come true.
My interests are eclectic. I have been called a Post-Modern Renaissance person. Sometimes people have a hard time keeping up. I can bounce from a variety of subjects, from the finer points of Nietzsche, to discussion of international culture, to politics, to classical music, to ancient eastern and western histories, to science fiction, to the discussion of cars, to hard science, to the latest discussion of Japanese anime. I can bounce between these things within the scope of a single conversation.
I have been told I am thoughtful, have good insight, and a strong will to make things happen.
I also have just come back from a year long preparation for certification examinations that I will have in October this year. I apologize for being intermittent in being online.
你怎样描述你理想的伴侣?
Emotionally stable, loving, caring, and faithful.
I am also looking for someone to work out and jog with as well. I am trying to keep myself in shape for my health, and I want her to be interested in taking care of her health as well.
She must follow her own path, and not be a slave to popular culture. Many of people in my home country are "slaves to fashion," which I find quite depressing. The woman I would be interested in has to be smart in her chosen profession, whatever that profession may be. She also has to have a wide variety of interests and a few hobbies that we can mutually share.
She sees herself as both a professional in her chosen career, and as a caring wife and mother. She would not be the only person caring for the family, as I want to be as involved as I can, and be the loving husband my ideal partner deserves and a caring father that children should have. I hope that she would welcome these ideas.
I want someone who thinks in "we" and "us," not "me" and "you."
如果你知道时间在30天后终止,你愿意做什么?
Try to find a way to help humanity survive. I don't believe in giving up without a good effort to survive.
如果你有一千万美元,你打算做什么?
If all my bills were paid, I would probably purchase a house in Hawaii by the coast, and with the rest invest it to make sure my family and myself were secure financially. Any profit beyond what it takes to live would go towards helping others. Perhaps a scholarship fund for students who want to study the sciences.
你经常向谁请教?
I had my father who was the my key source of advice. Since his death, I have tried for friends that seem reasonably mature. While I will seriously consider their advice, in the end, I have to be responsible for my own decisions.
对于同性别的人,你最看重什么品质?
Honor, loyalty, teamwork, strength of mind and will.
对于异性,你最看重什么品质?
Faithfulness, honor, nurturing, compassion, strength of mind and will.
你生命中最近的一次重要事件是什么,是怎样影响你的?
Recently, things have been calm. I had a lot of turmoil in the past, and I weathered through it. It is nice to have a bit of quiet between storms.
你能给自己孩子最好的教诲是什么?
Keep your mind open to new ideas. Force yourself to learn new things. Always realize that your actions have consequences. Make your goals high, and then reach for them. Don't give up on those goals. Never start a fight, but always finish it.
什么给你留下了深刻的印象或震惊?
Knowing that despite all your skills, all your knowledge, that you can be helpless at times. But never be helpless for long. I felt that when I saw my father dying and knew that he was terminally ill.
你最近读过的书?
A book by H.P. Lovecraft, "The Dream-Quest of Unknown Kadath."
你现在的目标?
Establish myself as an attending anesthesiologist. I work with fellow veterans, and it is important to care for them, as many don't get the care they need.
你羡慕谁?
My father while he was alive. No one has influenced me like he has.
你的朋友多吗?
Quite a few from many socioeconomic levels and levels of education. No one really close, however.
对于同性,你最讨厌哪些品质?
Overconfidence. Such a fault tends to kill people. Blind arrogance. Cruelty.
对于异性,你最讨厌哪些品质?
That most would like to follow trends of popular culture instead of being their own person. Sometimes they can't work together at all due to fighting among themselves. The inability to work past minor details and concentrate on achieving the goal.
对于自己,你愿意改变什么?
I am comfortable with myself, though I would appreciate having faults I don't realize exist pointed out to me. Sometimes it takes an outside view to see what needs changing
你的弱点是什么?
I work a lot. It causes a breakdown in communication at times. I love what I do, and wouldn't want to do anything else. I can talk for a bit. It takes time for me to trust anyone well.
你的强项是什么?
I know myself, and what I can do. I have intelligence, and the ability to use it to plan for the future. I have wisdom and insight, and do my best to use it to evaluate options to chose the correct course of action.
你的朋友怎么看待你?
I have been told I am brilliant, caring, and interesting to talk to.
你的熟人怎么看待你?
They see me as a reasonable, driven person.
你最喜欢的游戏是什么?
Various. Ask me.
你最喜欢的作家和诗人是谁?
Classical writers (Dante, Virgil, Cicero) Romatic/Enlightened Era writers (Shelly, Conan Doyle, Dostoevsky, etc.) Modern Literature (Lovecraft, Robbins, Hemmingway, Tolkein, etc.)
你喜欢什么音乐?
Renaissance, Baroque, Classical, Romantic, Gothic Rock, Classic Rock, 80's rock, New Age, Lilith Fair material (female vocalists,) Soundtracks and Soundscores of movies and plays.
你最喜欢什么食物?
Italian, Japanese, Chinese. However, I will try anything once; twice to be sure.
你最喜欢什么电影?
Mostly science-fiction and action/adventure films.
你最喜欢的活动或爱好是什么?
Reading, working out, browsing on the computer. Sometimes just doing nothing.
你梦寐以求的工作是什么?
I am working it right now.
请描述你理想的伴侣.
Emotionally stable, loving, caring, and faithful. And keeps herself in shape. Intelligent, insightful, and well-read.
Since being on this site, I find those who are insightful enough to answer the following questions very attractive: "What qualities do you dislike most in those of your gender?" and "What qualities do you dislike most in the people of the opposite sex?"