I would say I am more average than not. If I was a building, my walls would be thick, and my roof would not leak. If I was a train, I would very predictably run on schedule. But as a person who is here, seeking to find a sense of belonging, someone to belong to..... What do say? Get to know me and see for yourself what your opinions are, because those are what matters most. It does not matter what others say or feel, If you do not feel it yourself to be truth then the words are nothing but hollow and meaningless.
你怎样描述你理想的伴侣?
Idealism, is just that.... its a theory of what you think is better,an improvement over what you have had or have. What could be better, how could you change it........ Instead I would rather focus on how I could show and express how truely appreciative of the person who see's a future together. The happiness and devotion you receive from someone you love, is a reflection of the way you treat them and the sense of purpose you bring to their life.
It is always easier to blame the other person than to look in the mirror and see where you yourself may have done things differently. I do not wish to love the woman I live with. I wish to marry and love forever the woman I simply cannot live without.
如果你知道时间在30天后终止,你愿意做什么?
I would spend every moment showing how I feel to those closest to me. Righting wrongs, making amends. Living those days much as I would hope to live everyday now.
如果你有一千万美元,你打算做什么?
I cannot imagine anything be so much harder to imagine than spare, or meaningless. Everything you earn or gain in life has some cost or value in emotion ,spirit, or wealth. If not it is wasted and meaningless effort........... But in this hypothecal situation I would look for a resource or a way to accomplish the most longterm and meaningful benefits for the people around me,
你经常向谁请教?
I am never hesitant to ask for advice, a different view, or experience may not be the one for you. But it may also be something you would never have considered. I do not have to agree with an opinion to respect it. I o not always have to be right. I do not believe being first is always best.
对于同性别的人,你最看重什么品质?
Someone who remains true to character even in difficulty. I value conviction. The ability and willingness to stand for what you believe in.
对于异性,你最看重什么品质?
plain and simply...integrity and devotion.
你生命中最近的一次重要事件是什么,是怎样影响你的?
I have decided to quit wondering.......... is there someone out there for me..... I am here.
你能给自己孩子最好的教诲是什么?
Be true to yourself, if you are not. You can never be true to another.
什么给你留下了深刻的印象或震惊?
Finding success.... what was so hard to attain, so important that everything else was set aside. And realizing after all the work , the effort, the pain, It is meaningless without someone to share it with.
你最近读过的书?
I have not set aside time for recreational reading in much time. Technical manuals, updates to codes and revisions require much reading time.
你现在的目标?
I wish to build a family based on love and togetherness, retire young with plenty to do together, to live life instead of watching through a foggy glass while others do, and feel what is hopefully out there waiting for me.
你羡慕谁?
those who are happiest and make the best of the worst....... who are the most composed in times of duress.
你的朋友多吗?
No I keep a very small and close nit group of associates...
对于同性,你最讨厌哪些品质?
I do not care for arrogance, disloyalty,and those who attempt to use intimidation as a resource for status
对于异性,你最讨厌哪些品质?
arrogance, insensitivity, and prejudice
对于自己,你愿意改变什么?
I would hope to be more passive, non judgemental, and less critical of people in situations that are not my own.
你的弱点是什么?
I am stubborn. I am very often one tracked and driven to complete a task before setting it aside. I do not like to fail. I am sometimes very blunt with the truth, sometimes to the point of offensive.
你的强项是什么?
I am loyal. I am honest. I am a good provider. I give 100% to everything I do, or I do not do it.
你的朋友怎么看待你?
the first to call in time of need, hard headed and not willing to accept change well.
你的熟人怎么看待你?
straight forward in business, they may not know where I am going, but they always know where I stand.
你最喜欢的游戏是什么?
horse shoes, chess, billards,
你最喜欢的作家和诗人是谁?
Larry McMurtry, W.E.B.Griffen, Dean Koontz, Tom Clancy, Louis Lamour
你喜欢什么音乐?
Blues, Swing,"big band", counrty, rock, disco
你最喜欢什么食物?
seafood.......... crab lobster oysters, and a good steak, I do like ethinc food aswell, both spicy and mild, I am not a picky eater I will try anything at least once.
你最喜欢什么电影?
Lonesome Dove with robert duvall, phenominon with John Travolta, Forrest Gump with Tom hanks, The Postman and Dances With Wolves and Open Range with Kevin Costner, and Cinderella man with Russel crowe
你最喜欢的童话故事是什么?
I never was able to enjoy much of childhood full of stories and fairy tales...... but I would have to say snow-white
你最喜欢的活动或爱好是什么?
I enjoy the seclusion of wilderness and sea, the calm, the quiet, the serinity that only appreciation of the beauty this world has to offer has shown me.
你梦寐以求的工作是什么?
I have the job of my dreams, Its my own corporation, run according to the standards , morals and enviroment that it is only in my hands to provide. A standard of excellence and shared appreciation by everyone who is part of it.
请描述你理想的伴侣.
The person who is my everything, the reason I wake.... The lady who needs me as much as I TRUELY NEED HER
你想住在哪里?
I would someday like to build a large home of logs and stone, a fortress of the heart and a hearth of the soul.