tender, maternal, creative, challenging, intellectual, sensual, communicative, open, sexual, sad, optimistic, elegant, human
如果你知道时间在30天后终止,你愿意做什么?
I would spend as much time getting to know my living family members
如果你有一千万美元,你打算做什么?
I would create a retreat for underprivileged youth where they would be exposed to the art via inspiring teachers... And of course I would also just get a nice bottle of wine and go share it with my girlfriend.
你经常向谁请教?
I ask my father for advice—we are very close because our personalities are very similar.
对于同性别的人,你最看重什么品质?
loyalty and ambition are the two most important qualities in my male friends
对于异性,你最看重什么品质?
I value women's social insight, nurturing compassion, and vigilance against male stupidity
你生命中最近的一次重要事件是什么,是怎样影响你的?
I started my own business a year ago—a happening that has prevented me from having a girlfriend.
你能给自己孩子最好的教诲是什么?
I will tell my children that whatever they become, they should become a GOOD ONE. I would much rather encourage a child's talent than force him into any particular direction.
什么给你留下了深刻的印象或震惊?
Losing my fiancee in 2003 profoundly affected me—it made me forever more empathetic and emotionally mature.
你最近读过的书?
I have been reading Will Durant's history of the Roman Empire, CAESAR AND CHRIST; Heinrich Boell's THE CLOWN, and Nabokov's SPEAK MEMORY
你现在的目标?
My goals are to live a healthier life and find a woman with whom to raise a happy family.
你羡慕谁?
Too many people to name here, but among my heroes are Andrei Tarkovsky, Edward Wilson, Heinrich Boell, Milan Kundera, Stanley Kubrick, Abraham Lincoln and of course my mother.
你的朋友多吗?
I have too many friends. What I need is my own family.
I wish I could be responsible for somebody else's future beyond my own
你的弱点是什么?
I am sometimes impatient for change, I can get obsessed by sex, I can be too elitist, I do not sleep enough, I want the best woman in the world
你的强项是什么?
I am the hardest working man you'll meet, I would make a great father, I am extremely passionate about art and architecture and food and women's sun dresses. I have an enormous amount of experiences and joy to share with a divine female human creature. I exercise frequently and I can cook.
你的朋友怎么看待你?
They see me as the entertaining dinner guest, the traveling adventurer, the eternal bachelor (they are always trying to have me meet their single female friends).
你的熟人怎么看待你?
They see me as a person obsessed with his creative projects, who never gives up...
你最喜欢的游戏是什么?
I am not an avid "game player"... but if it pleases a woman, I will play chess or bowl or cards and learn whatever they like. I experience joy vicariously.
你最喜欢的作家和诗人是谁?
I think I covered that somewhat in the books read section...
你喜欢什么音乐?
minimal techno, classical (baroque), reggae, bossa nova, hiphop, classic rock, punk, new wave, jazz
你最喜欢什么食物?
I am in love with food—it is a pleasure ALMOST equal to lovemaking for me. I would easily plan a whole vacation around the pursuit of food and wine.
你最喜欢什么电影?
Zerkalo by Tarkovsky, The Passenger by Antonioni, Vertical Ray of the Sun by Anh Hung Tran, The Conversation by Francis Coppola, Mishima by Paul Schrader, Amadeus by Milos Forman... many, many more!
你最喜欢的童话故事是什么?
Alison and Wonderland
你最喜欢的活动或爱好是什么?
sleeping (after the time has passed)
你梦寐以求的工作是什么?
I think I do it — making images inside my mind a reality to share with others
请描述你理想的伴侣.
Maybe you? I hope so.
你想住在哪里?
The Dalmatian coast of Croatia... or perhaps a cove in Costa Rica, or possibly Hawaii... somewhere that I can fly to the city from and that my kids have enough room to play in the ocean and the forest.